Experience, Family

Lake Week Day 2

We’ll call this day two since we got here yesterday.

Up with the sun and seriously enjoying some time outside and just together with family. Tons of laughs, smiles and daredevil antics as our crew sought to experience everything they could through the day.

It starts with pancakes and prep for time on the water. This is the first time we’ve been able to get the boat out this year, so we had a lot of anticipation to these moments. Able to get out a few minutes yesterday after we got unpacked and settled in a bit.

This morning the water was super warm and all of us ready for a good good day on the water.
As we got on the boat this morning, it was strange because the engine would not connect into reverse. We spent a few minutes trying to figure it out, but not luck, so thank God forward was still an option and off we went not thinking anything of it.

We played the day away. Tubing and skiing and swimming and snacking. Jumping and diving and cruising and splashing. It was mid afternoon before we knew anything and well past lunch.

That meant hammocks and resting and boys building fires while everyone else was fighting heavy eyelids.

Finally, time for more boat. Again, no reverse and almost drifting into a neighboring speedboat. Uncle Kenton jumped into the water to push us back out a bit and off we went.

This time it was for the boys to get their first chance at water skiing. If you’ve never tried it, it can be grueling the first time. This is where grandpa’s training skis come in very handy. They are tied together so they can’t split apart and the skies are actually tied and being pulled rather than the skier having to hold a handle and be pulled.

Grayson up first. He struggled a bit and was actually very close to getting it but just couldn’t stand up all the way.

Austin next and he fought the same trouble. Only this time, on his second attempt, the rope gave out and broke! Never had a nylon ski rope break before, but we joked with him that he skied so hard he broke the rope! He was pretty proud of that and it seemed to make up for the frustration of not being able to really get on his feet.

Austin next and he fought the same trouble. Only this time, on his second attempt, the rope gave out and broke! Never had a nylon ski rope break before, but we joked with him that he skied so hard he broke the rope! He was pretty proud of that and it seemed to make up for the frustration of not being able to really get on his feet.

For the next 30 minutes my dad and uncle Kyle worked at getting the rope somewhat repaired enough to give it another go. We drifted a while, watching the shoreline and our positioning so we didn’t get stuck in an awkward place since we still didn’t have reverse.

It was time to give it another shot with Austin, so into the water he goes. Kyle there with him to assist and help him with the confidence he’s going to need to get on his feet. So, I start the engine and prep to move out a bit and get the line taunt, only this time, there’s no forward either!

I tried and tried and get that lever to move, but it was jammed! No forward, No reverse. Engine running just fine. We are sitting in small cove, no other boat traffic around and wondering what in the world we are going to do to get out of this mess. Dad tried albeit futally to try to figure it out, but nothing was working. We finally decided that we have had the boat version of a blown transmission.

So what do you do in a situation like this?

Only two of us brought phones on the boat. Mine hasn’t been working for a week now for some reason. I can make and receive calls and texts but my data isn’t working at all.
Austin just got a phone for his birthday two weeks ago and he wasn’t planning on bringing his phone tonight, but right at the last minute, I reminded him that his phone had our boat playlist so we definitely needed that! Thank God he brought it as it was our only connection!

Here we are away from everything in this cove doing everything we can to wave and yell and blow the horn trying to get some passing boaters attention! Last resort for us was calling Sea Tow, the water version of AAA but it’s expensive. Besides that, there’s an unwritten rule of boating courtesy that says if you come across a boater needing help, you do whatever it takes, because there’s only two kinds of boaters out there–those needing help now and those who will need help later.

Finally, someone spots our desperate cry for help and motors over. They graciously agree to pull us back to the dock. It takes about 20-30 minutes for us to do all this and finally get situated back on dry land. Where, on earth would we be without gracious people like that? I offered to fill their fuel tank for them but they declined, telling us that they have been in the same position before and will eventually be again.

So there we go, only day two and we’ve already had a crazy experience.

The night ended with more laughs, great dinner, smore’ cones, jam twists, fireside talks about the most random things and trying to get uncle Kyle to decided to buy a house in PA.

Tomorrow, we’ll do some fishing and visiting my favorite boat mechanic right up the street. We’re already on a first name basis now, so it’ll be just reconnecting old friends. 😉

It wouldn’t be lake week without a little drama!

Experience, Family, Rest

Lake Week

Lake week again. Finally! We’ve been anticipating this week for a long time now.  Our family really only knows one speed and that it just fast. With 5 kids, you can imagine the constant movement that happens all the time. It gets to be breakneck every once in a while. 

Over the past few weeks, as we’ve been in the process of finishing up some major projects on our house, we’ve just about exhausted ourselves for weeks on end. For a while there it was up around 5 and to bed around midnight for days on end and you can really only do that for so long before your body begins to refuse to listen to your crazy talk! 

So lake week. For three years running we’ve made it a point to come up here in the middle of July to just be together with the whole family and spend as much time on the water as we are able. We have found that there is therapy in these woods and waters. Some sort of healing salve is released when you jump in for the first time and float 40’ above the muddy bottom of the warm waters.  We’ll fish, we’ll tube, we’ll ski, we’ll eat and laugh and play and it will be most rejuvenating. 

What’s your therapy? What do you do in your word to get the most relaxing you can? 

Biblical Living, Experience, Family, Lessons for my crew

What have we learned?

Months into this strange season we are living right now, and we’ve gotten far enough to track some metrics on our progress. These are peculiar days we are living! Who’s going to argue with me on that?

When in your imagination did you ever think you’d see a fight over toilet paper in a grocery store?

When in your thinking did you ever imagine you’d be told by the government that you should not leave your home for any reason unless absolutely necessary!?

How about being told to wear a medical mask everywhere you go and in every interaction with people. How many places have you see where they put info stickers on their entrances indicating to hats, glasses or MASKS that now have to go back and change all those indications!? And how have robberies not spiked in the process because of everyone now sporting masks?

Everything is different and nothing is normal. But what have we learned?

We cannot allow this time and season to escape us without noting something…a thousand things, we’ve learned through it.

This really draws my mind to the really familiar passage from Ecclesiastes 3 where the author, presumably King Solomon, wrote about there being a time for everything we endure in life. We live life in seasons. Every year is broken into seasons. Our lifetime can also be broken into seasons, think about it. We think in terms of years, days, months, hours, minutes, but what if there is something larger at work with less defined and structured parameters?

The season of parenting

The season of honeymooning

The season of sickness

The season of having teens

The season of being a teen

The season of just married

The season of being married for decades

The season of career

The season of retirement

The season of education

The season of depression

The terrible two’s (you know, the years between 2 and 22)

The season of corona

Everyone of these seasons comes with a gift of learning. We can either learn something and grow from it, or we can try to kick our feet up and close off the world until it passes. Ironically, we see a great number of people trying to do that every thing with this season of Corona. They do the same with seasons they don’t know what do to with.

How many people have you seen that are just trying to make it through?

They’re trying desperately to make it through early parenting.

Make it through parenting a teen.

Make it through the career or job they currently have

Make it through the marriage

The problem is making it through is the un-communicated mirage that believes once we’re through, it’ll be better.

As I stick a pin to your glitter filled balloon, don’t hate me on the other side.


The only thing you’re going to receive on the other side, besides trying desperately to vacuum all that glitter, is bitterness from having an expectation that could never be realized.

Can I be so bold to tell you that you did this to yourself!?

Adjust your expectations

Sink yourself into the season you are in and own it like a boss.

I’m going to say something ridiculously profound utterly simple. You ready?!

No one knows how to get through the season they are going through until they’ve gone through it.

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No one in our generation has lived through a pandemic like this. NO ONE.

And honestly, even if they did, the one they would have gone through previously would have been drastically different.

We have go to drop the victim lifestyle and mindset that we are trying to adopt because of the season.

And honestly, that applies to every season of life you are blessed to experience.

Every season has its own blessings.

Every season.

Even the terrible ones.

It’s only through terrible seasons are you given the beauty and blessing of seeing the tremendous come through the terrible

Experience, Grand Point - Ship, Lessons for my crew

Where is Your Faith!?

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It was going to be a brief week. Being that school was going to start soon, I had some plans I wanted to do with the kids, namely get the boat back on the water, just me and them. We also had Austin’s orientation that was at a very strange time, Thursday morning for 2 hours. Because he’s making the entrance into middle school, we wanted to really take some time with him and make this transition thinking it was going to be rough/tough for him.

I was surprised when my boss texted me early on Monday saying that he needed to meet with me about something that day. Those kinds of texts always send my mind reeling with possible content.

Am I in trouble?

Experience, Family, Random


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Saturday’s for our family look so chill. We do almost nothing and we love it that way.

Sure there are the experiences we engage in from time to time, but for the most part, we have learned the incredible value of down time. Nothing planned, nothing happening, just nothing.

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The Value of Nothing

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Around the end of the year, I always get a bit nostalgic and begin looking back over years gone by at all the Lord has led and accomplished in and around me.

I’ve pulled out several years of journals and started really looking through the mindsets I had as different years began and I’ve come across a place the Lord directed me personally that was into NOTHING.

Biblical Living, Experience

The Value of Purpose

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“What am I supposed to do with my life?” The various forms of that questions are probably the most widely asked questions I get as a pastor. Everyone wants to know that they are doing something of value. Recently I listened to sports sensation, Tim Tebow, talk about his desire for purpose in life and many simply assume that when you’re involved in a life of such celebrity that becomes the best purpose of all. He easily and quickly pointed to the fact that to him sports was an on-ramp to a much greater purpose of helping people who are desperate and in need of a helping hand. What a story! But what does that mean for you?

Experience, Family

Goodbye 2019!

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Twenty-Twenty is just hours away! Can you believe it!? We’re about to be in the roaring twenties!

I love the start of a new year, there’s just nothing quite like it. Typically for me, I like to spend the last days of the current year reminiscing over the past year and reliving some of the great as well as some of the painful moments that characterized the year we are leaving behind. I love the memory of where the Lord brought us as you can look back and see some of the vast valley’s He’s brought us through and across some of the vast mountain ranges He’s directed us over.

How was it for you? Is 2019 a year you’re ready to leave in the rear-view mirror or one that you could stand to enjoy a while longer?

Experience, Family

and just like that…

And just like that, it’s over. All that wrapping paper in trash bags out by the street. Think of all the time you spent wrapping all those gifts! The gifts are all over the house and all semblance of normal is frozen along with the grass on the front lawn.